10 Steps to Avoid Sexual Harassment on the Subway

Sexual harassment is a major problem in NYC, and crowded subways are the most common places for this to occur. There are many different forms of sexual harassment, for example: grinning, whistling, staring at body parts, displaying pornographic or sexist pictures or graffiti, telling dirty or inappropriate jokes, or rubbing up against someone. Most women try not to let this bother them because they may feel embarrassed or powerless; however, this may lead to a more serious behavior. Police officer Keith states, "In most cases, sexual harassment occurs when the victim tries to ignore the offender and his acts." Here are some precautionary steps to take when riding the subway.

Give some thought to how you dress because, unfortunately, certain outfits will entice a potential harasser. Also, be alert to this new trend: Some men might try to point video cameras or camera phones under the clothes of unsuspecting women. Be very aware of the people around you. "I was asking a man for directions, and a bum put his hand under my skirt," stated a woman riding the F Train.

Leave valuables at home. Take only what is needed. Travel light; men will see you as helpless and vulnerable with the more bags you have. Try to get a locker at Pace University where you can store your things.

Make sure you know your way to and from school and home. Know your way around the train stations that you take, like which staircase leads to where.

Attempt to travel with friends. Make arrangements to meet a friend at a certain time and place. It is safer traveling with a larger group.

Avoid standing near strangers. Sexual harassment often happens in a large crowd; therefore, some men will use this opportunity to touch or pinch the female passengers standing close to them.

It is safer to ride the subway in the morning or during the day. Avoid traveling at night or during rush hours.

There is a higher chance of sexual harassment occurring in the back and the front of the train. Take the middle subway cars.

Avoid sitting next to someone who makes you feel uncomfortable. If there is a sign of sexual staring, switch seats or subway cars.

If there is a chance sexual harassment will occur, inform a conductor. If a harasser follows you, call the police immediately. It is better to be safe than sorry.

When sexual harassment does occur, make a scene. Point at the offender and chastise him in a loud voice. He'll probably slink away.

Even if you follow these tips, it unfortunately does not guarantee that you will never be harassed. So, how do you know when you're being harassed and what can you do about it? The most important thing to realize is that if you feel violated or uncomfortable in any way, you are being sexual harassed. To not let this progress, make sure that the harasser is aware of how you feel. If you have ever been sexually harassed, do not feel embarrassed to tell someone. The Counseling Center at Pace University is very helpful. The most important thing to remember is that you are not helpless, and you don't have to take it!